from the other partner's perspective (mostly the woman)

sooo am writing this without a topic first...i'll think of the topic later :)

so i have realised that there is one thing i do when am stressed...its called FIGHT....and i fight with those closest to me...it's kinda sad coz uhhhmmm well that doesnt really help my situation but well i only know one other thing that helps relieve the stress and i cant get that whenever i want ;) know what i mean...

so the other day, i had an exam and it was taking forever and i started getting edgy...so i called your's truly to fight with him...oh my...i actually said i called you to fight with u...ehhhmm he wasnt impressed and well he refused to fight with me..needless to say i probably shouldn't have said that because later on that night-ehhhmmm there was a huuuugggeeee fight that am not happy about at all...

so now i think i know what i wanna write about...why is it assumed that when two ppl are in a relationship, they have to know everything about each other??? or that they have to know what to say and what not to say?? i mean i dont live with you and when you're with me, you may not be yourself until like the 2nd year or so...so whatever i have known of u is clearly not the right thing...

and also why do u think am in your head to know what's wrong or what your mood is coz of your day-if u dont wanna talk to me coz u had a bad day TELL ME SOOOOO....i'll leave u alone...and wait for u to call me...actually i won't..coz i'm a woman...i wanna know why u had a bad day...so if u dont wanna talk say I'M NOT IN THE BEST OF MOODS RIGHT NOW PLEASE CAN WE TALK LATER...i'm sure any woman would understand that..

make time for me...jsut coz i'm your gf now doesn't mean that u stop buying me flowers and taking me out to dinner...it doesnt mean u gotta stop making an effort....and it aint about how much shit you've taken from me...are we now measuring the amount that we are giving and taking in the relationship...i mean really....

the worst thing you can do to a woman is tell her how much you're doing for her..in the end she's gonna shut you out...and thats the truth coz she gonna feel that you are feeling obligated to do to things....and you will eventually lose her not because she doesnt love you, but because she feels you don't feel the same about her...