ok so me being a woman i go through these hormonal changes and they cause loadsa emotional changes and these usually happen around the same time...it's kinda weird but well it happens...and well at these times i dont want some one to tell me what i wanna hear i want some one to tell me the truth....and most times PEOPLE DON'T TELL YOU THE TRUTH...
yeah i get really insecure....duh the reason i'm getting insecure is you're a really hot and awesome guy and i'm lucky to have u so uhmmm any girl would wanna have u...i just wanna hear u say that ur mine mine and only mine...that can't be so hard to keep saying can it???
i wanna hear how beautiful i am and how u never look at other women....and if u do...tell me and then say something like YOU KNOW YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE FOR ME...i'll feel so much better...
tell me how u miss me and can't live without me...these are things i need to hear mid relationship and not in the beginning of the relationship...clearly the relationship is still new-obviously u cant live without me...i excite your life....but i need to know that when things are tough and boring on our relationship u still gonna be able to say u can't live without me...
don't say i love u all the time but say it when u feel that i need to hear it....I go through emotions ALL THE TIME incase u haven't noticed....and i need to hear it alot of the times coz it makees me all giddy and happy inside...but dont over do it....
when i feel frumpy...dont lie and say i dont look bad....accentuate my good sides...say positive things about me...it'll help...
when i'm venting...i'm just simply venting...i don't need for you to think of a solution....i mean think about how many of us hate each other but when u see us we're the best of friends???? it's called FEMALE...the need to bond with the other of my species is necessary for some reason coz they're more emotionally charged and you, the man, is logically charged....sometimes i just want emotion...
when am venting...DON'T GIVE ME YOUR OPINION...i just wanna be heard out...say hmmm, huh, are u ok? , do u feel better, how can i help?...things like that are nice...show that u care...don't say....I THINK YOU SHOULD, WHY DONT U JUST DO THIS etc etc....
when i talk...am not directing my anger at you....i'm just venting coz i dunno how am feeling and i usually let things out by talking....so please don't take it to heart....it's not your fault or your problem...i just wanna talk and i trust u the most so i feel that i can just talk without u taking it personally...
so men....learn what to say, when to say and how to say things....i wish there was some man out there who could tell me how to do them things with their fellow species....
Monday, 18 April 2011
Thursday, 7 April 2011
distance, relationships and why they don't work but should....
this one was requested for...
i've had loadsa distance relationships...infact i'm in one right now....ok so we not that far away but we still apart and don't see each other as much as we would like to but it's working (for once) and i think my bf has the key concept of distance relationships....it's called less communication....loooool
his theory is the more you talk to each other, the more u miss each other and the more u start looking for that affection....and ur partner ain't around so wellllll u get it else where init???
i mean sure u miss each other and stuff but hey if u constantly remind yourself about it then whaddya expect????
don't get me wrong...we talk.....i share all my bad things and good things and exciting things with him but as i have learned over the past couple months-there's a time and place and opportunity for everything....and my bf and i-TOTAL OPPOSITES...i love to talk and dance and jump like an excited monkey and he just loves to chill out, be quiet and calm and relaxed....atleast i can talk as much as i want without beiing interrupted...u know how annoying that can be with all the chatter and jabber i got in my head?? tee hee hee
back to his theory....at first i thought he's just being crazy and stuff...i mean really now....and then i realised that guys just can't give a girl the kinda attention that he usually does coz well then they become all soft in the head....i have come to realise that when it comes to relationships MEN ARE NINNYS...and they dont want the others to know about it so they become all macho and gangster...they feel more for you then u can ever imagine but are just scared of showing it coz then we know we got them and treat them like shit...and yeah u know that's the truth..WHEN A GIRL KNOWS SHE GOT A GUY NINNY SHE ABUSES THAT RIGHT AND TRAMPLES ALL OVER HIS HEART...
so when ur apart abd he doesn't call or text you...it's not that he doesn't miss u-COZ HONEY YOU KNOW HE DOES-it's that he doesn't wanna over miss you coz then it becomes unbearable for him and he ends up over eating and as much as we love teddies you'll dump his ass so fast coz he grew fat :p :p
so stop being a drama queen and just understand HE'A A MAN..they're apparently supposed to be MACHO.....
and that's the reason long distance doesn't work.....
i've had loadsa distance relationships...infact i'm in one right now....ok so we not that far away but we still apart and don't see each other as much as we would like to but it's working (for once) and i think my bf has the key concept of distance relationships....it's called less communication....loooool
his theory is the more you talk to each other, the more u miss each other and the more u start looking for that affection....and ur partner ain't around so wellllll u get it else where init???
i mean sure u miss each other and stuff but hey if u constantly remind yourself about it then whaddya expect????
don't get me wrong...we talk.....i share all my bad things and good things and exciting things with him but as i have learned over the past couple months-there's a time and place and opportunity for everything....and my bf and i-TOTAL OPPOSITES...i love to talk and dance and jump like an excited monkey and he just loves to chill out, be quiet and calm and relaxed....atleast i can talk as much as i want without beiing interrupted...u know how annoying that can be with all the chatter and jabber i got in my head?? tee hee hee
back to his theory....at first i thought he's just being crazy and stuff...i mean really now....and then i realised that guys just can't give a girl the kinda attention that he usually does coz well then they become all soft in the head....i have come to realise that when it comes to relationships MEN ARE NINNYS...and they dont want the others to know about it so they become all macho and gangster...they feel more for you then u can ever imagine but are just scared of showing it coz then we know we got them and treat them like shit...and yeah u know that's the truth..WHEN A GIRL KNOWS SHE GOT A GUY NINNY SHE ABUSES THAT RIGHT AND TRAMPLES ALL OVER HIS HEART...
so when ur apart abd he doesn't call or text you...it's not that he doesn't miss u-COZ HONEY YOU KNOW HE DOES-it's that he doesn't wanna over miss you coz then it becomes unbearable for him and he ends up over eating and as much as we love teddies you'll dump his ass so fast coz he grew fat :p :p
so stop being a drama queen and just understand HE'A A MAN..they're apparently supposed to be MACHO.....
and that's the reason long distance doesn't work.....
Monday, 4 April 2011
relationships, marriages, divorces and the mistress :/ (for the girls )
After being in a relationship a year plus i watched the movie he;s just not that into you again...the first time i watched it i was heart broken and didnt really understand what was going on...
tha movie is the best relationship movie i've ever seen...it's not the typical movie we see where every one has a happy ending...there's jerks and divas and husbands and girlfriends and even mistresses...a typical real life situation...
lets take a look at the married couples...there are about 4....out of which 3 we see the husbands would rather watch games and drink beer rather than help around in the house and stuff....typical men gestures....(jerks)
then there's the one marriage that ends in divorce in the end...lets analyse that one abit shall we...
there's a woman who after college gives the guy an ultimatum lets get married or we break up....he goes and gets married to her...and no they don't live happily ever after they actually get divorced...from the start of the movie we see there's no sexual tension between them, hence he gets attracted to the other woman...it's not coz she's giving him anything different...she's just accepting him for who he is...which is what most of us do initially in a relationship..when we first meet some one we're so happy to just be in their company and love them for who they are and then all of a sudden one day.....whhhhaaaaammmmm....we not happy with then coz they don't our hands in public, don't reply to our texts, don't pick up our calls etc etc etc...
sooooo lets go to the holding hands in public...most guys just dont wanna look pussy whipped...u forget they have an imagie to uphold....the MACHO IMAGE.....he's not married to you and well lets just say guys have this tendency to talk...not ur guy..i mean other guys....they'll tease the crap outta him just coz he was seen holding your hand..and guys aren't like gals...they take these things personally....u make fun of him and shit hits the fan....
the reason they don't reply to your texts constantly is coz they're busy at work...it doesn't mean they're not missing you but seriously gal-if you keep texting him how is he gonna get time to miss you??? or how is he gonna get any kind of work done if he's constantly on the phone with u??? think logically and not from the way you think relationships should be please.....
also if you keep calling him every 5 mins how do expect him to know when u need to talk to him or when you just calling to say sup-literally every hour...and i'm a culprit...i would talk to my bf so much during the day-literally saying absolutely nothing that i think it started pissing him off...he has a mother to ask him where he is and what he is doing...don't become his second mother-ur his wife/gf so behave that way.....
you don't havta talk to each other every day....especially if you're dating....i mean in the initial stages yeah it was good fun talking for hours and hour and hours on the phone....that's coz u had so much to learn about each other..you had so much to talk about....now that you know each other why do u still havta talk for hours on end when there's nothing to really talk about...lets be honest-that's what causes fights....so u dont talk for a couple of days-u wont die-infact you'll get closer and have more to talk about....
and so back to the movie again....the wifey has insecurities about her husband dying o lung cancer coz her father who was a smoker died of lung cancer....so her husband does it behind her back....here's another problem we have as women...don't let ur insecurities ruin your presnt and probable future relationship....and this one goes for men too....if a girl cheated on you in the past it doesn't mean that ur new gf will do the same....by constantly nagging the guy/girl to change ur taking them from who they are to who u want them to be....and this causes one person to be uncomfortable and the other to be unhappy.....and this is where the big phrase comes in YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME....
oh boy you just made your guy so mad u don't wanna even know....he's the one who's there for you no matter what....through thick and thin..come what may...he would even fight for you....and then you say he doesn't understand you....he feels like crap and whats the first thing he does???? look for another person who makes him feel good about himself again-usually another woman...
so yeah i am blaming the girl for making the guy cheat on her and all the other crap he does to you... if you don't set your boundaries how do u expect him to know them???
and another thing-don't expect a guy to know what u want from him....TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT....they not hormonal emotional fools like us who will keep pestering...if something is bugging you tell him so....coz he ain't gonna ask you again and again....
oh yeah and another point to note-don't ask you girlfriends what they think of your relationship-they'll put crap in your head and cause even more fights.....they're girlssssss for God's sake.....what more do they know then u????
and not every guy is the same so don't classify them that way....each has their own individualism and well we need to get that from them....
Happy Courting ;)
tha movie is the best relationship movie i've ever seen...it's not the typical movie we see where every one has a happy ending...there's jerks and divas and husbands and girlfriends and even mistresses...a typical real life situation...
lets take a look at the married couples...there are about 4....out of which 3 we see the husbands would rather watch games and drink beer rather than help around in the house and stuff....typical men gestures....(jerks)
then there's the one marriage that ends in divorce in the end...lets analyse that one abit shall we...
there's a woman who after college gives the guy an ultimatum lets get married or we break up....he goes and gets married to her...and no they don't live happily ever after they actually get divorced...from the start of the movie we see there's no sexual tension between them, hence he gets attracted to the other woman...it's not coz she's giving him anything different...she's just accepting him for who he is...which is what most of us do initially in a relationship..when we first meet some one we're so happy to just be in their company and love them for who they are and then all of a sudden one day.....whhhhaaaaammmmm....we not happy with then coz they don't our hands in public, don't reply to our texts, don't pick up our calls etc etc etc...
sooooo lets go to the holding hands in public...most guys just dont wanna look pussy whipped...u forget they have an imagie to uphold....the MACHO IMAGE.....he's not married to you and well lets just say guys have this tendency to talk...not ur guy..i mean other guys....they'll tease the crap outta him just coz he was seen holding your hand..and guys aren't like gals...they take these things personally....u make fun of him and shit hits the fan....
the reason they don't reply to your texts constantly is coz they're busy at work...it doesn't mean they're not missing you but seriously gal-if you keep texting him how is he gonna get time to miss you??? or how is he gonna get any kind of work done if he's constantly on the phone with u??? think logically and not from the way you think relationships should be please.....
also if you keep calling him every 5 mins how do expect him to know when u need to talk to him or when you just calling to say sup-literally every hour...and i'm a culprit...i would talk to my bf so much during the day-literally saying absolutely nothing that i think it started pissing him off...he has a mother to ask him where he is and what he is doing...don't become his second mother-ur his wife/gf so behave that way.....
you don't havta talk to each other every day....especially if you're dating....i mean in the initial stages yeah it was good fun talking for hours and hour and hours on the phone....that's coz u had so much to learn about each other..you had so much to talk about....now that you know each other why do u still havta talk for hours on end when there's nothing to really talk about...lets be honest-that's what causes fights....so u dont talk for a couple of days-u wont die-infact you'll get closer and have more to talk about....
and so back to the movie again....the wifey has insecurities about her husband dying o lung cancer coz her father who was a smoker died of lung cancer....so her husband does it behind her back....here's another problem we have as women...don't let ur insecurities ruin your presnt and probable future relationship....and this one goes for men too....if a girl cheated on you in the past it doesn't mean that ur new gf will do the same....by constantly nagging the guy/girl to change ur taking them from who they are to who u want them to be....and this causes one person to be uncomfortable and the other to be unhappy.....and this is where the big phrase comes in YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME....
oh boy you just made your guy so mad u don't wanna even know....he's the one who's there for you no matter what....through thick and thin..come what may...he would even fight for you....and then you say he doesn't understand you....he feels like crap and whats the first thing he does???? look for another person who makes him feel good about himself again-usually another woman...
so yeah i am blaming the girl for making the guy cheat on her and all the other crap he does to you... if you don't set your boundaries how do u expect him to know them???
and another thing-don't expect a guy to know what u want from him....TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT....they not hormonal emotional fools like us who will keep pestering...if something is bugging you tell him so....coz he ain't gonna ask you again and again....
oh yeah and another point to note-don't ask you girlfriends what they think of your relationship-they'll put crap in your head and cause even more fights.....they're girlssssss for God's sake.....what more do they know then u????
and not every guy is the same so don't classify them that way....each has their own individualism and well we need to get that from them....
Happy Courting ;)
sex, fake orgasms and little fingers :D :D
sooooo we all usually know the concept of sex and orgasms and how apparently women can fake orgasms-i've never really been able to do that so mine are real...
back to the little fingers....and no i'm not talking about the man sex organ ie the penis...i'm actually talking about fingers....
this is actually one of my friend's stories....and i got her total permission to write as long as there are no names....
u know how gals usually take a longer time to get turned on compared to guys init..so the guy hasta like work really hard to kinda like get her switched on....hahahaha...well this dude decided to try the whole finger story but she was already turned on....i dunno how he didnt know that...i mean it's abit obvious when a gal is horny...she just wants to jump the bones outta you,....hehehehe
so he works his little fingers around her apparent clit-clearly the wrong spot coz well she felt nada...infact she actually got turned off...but the guy didnt just get it....
the next day she comes walking in like she's got a tampon up the wrong end(literally) and wincing in pain...and i was like WTF happened to you??? and she says..."it's an injury"...and am like "huh" and she's like....."the fool injured me with his little fingers" hahahahahahahahahaha...
the dude kept going and going coz he wanted her to have the most perfect orgasm and she had gone so dry that the finger and labia had managed to cause friction between each other hance making my pal walk like a penguin :)
moral of the story-GUYS ASK THE GIRLS WHAT SHE LIKES....trust me....she will never hide it from you.....and the same for girls....
you can't have perfect sex and orgams just by jumping each other...you gotta talk about it...jeez don't u ppl read on these things???
back to the little fingers....and no i'm not talking about the man sex organ ie the penis...i'm actually talking about fingers....
this is actually one of my friend's stories....and i got her total permission to write as long as there are no names....
u know how gals usually take a longer time to get turned on compared to guys init..so the guy hasta like work really hard to kinda like get her switched on....hahahaha...well this dude decided to try the whole finger story but she was already turned on....i dunno how he didnt know that...i mean it's abit obvious when a gal is horny...she just wants to jump the bones outta you,....hehehehe
so he works his little fingers around her apparent clit-clearly the wrong spot coz well she felt nada...infact she actually got turned off...but the guy didnt just get it....
the next day she comes walking in like she's got a tampon up the wrong end(literally) and wincing in pain...and i was like WTF happened to you??? and she says..."it's an injury"...and am like "huh" and she's like....."the fool injured me with his little fingers" hahahahahahahahahaha...
the dude kept going and going coz he wanted her to have the most perfect orgasm and she had gone so dry that the finger and labia had managed to cause friction between each other hance making my pal walk like a penguin :)
moral of the story-GUYS ASK THE GIRLS WHAT SHE LIKES....trust me....she will never hide it from you.....and the same for girls....
you can't have perfect sex and orgams just by jumping each other...you gotta talk about it...jeez don't u ppl read on these things???
Sunday, 3 April 2011
girls and farts :D :D :D
why is it that girls can't fart around people??? are we not people as well???
i mean if i eat too much you say i'm gonna get fat, if i eat only a salad you complain to the guy that i make you feel uncomfortable
and what's with the whole eating from my plate...you got your own plate dude....or is that a subtle way of telling me i've eaten too much???
so i was having a conversation with one of my new friends...and i told him i'd eaten too much...he couldn't stop laughing...coz apparently girls watch their weight or something...am not exessively fat....i just love my food a whole lot more than i love shopping...i can't be bothered to go into a ship and try on 20,000 kinds of dresses jsut for the fun of it....nothing ever fits or they always make me seem like what am not...yeah sure every girl like to live a fantasy but gimme a bbq and coke any time and we'll be best friends :D
and why can i not fart within the vicinity of friends...i am human too u know....and why is in inappropriate for me to loosen my belt and sit coz i feel like it...i mean guys roam around half nude all the time...i'm just loosening my belt honestly....
society today has made it so difficult for girls to survive normally...u gotta be thin (although i knw for a fact guys hate that) to be called sexy....how is that so when most of the guys always say they want something to grab onto and not something that pokes them...i mean rrreeeaaaaallllyyyyy nowwwwww...
why do we let society create our norms??? why can a girl not do half the things she wants to do??? just coz she got tits and ass??? pplz....we didnt used to wear clothes before...its called evolution....coz eve apparently gave adam the apple or something of that sort...which makes me wonder-is that why guys have that adam's apple thingi around their neck??? coz the apple got stuck half way????
oh weelllll...i'm gonna try and fart in public and see what the response is....i already loosen my belt when i eat too much :D :D
i mean if i eat too much you say i'm gonna get fat, if i eat only a salad you complain to the guy that i make you feel uncomfortable
and what's with the whole eating from my plate...you got your own plate dude....or is that a subtle way of telling me i've eaten too much???
so i was having a conversation with one of my new friends...and i told him i'd eaten too much...he couldn't stop laughing...coz apparently girls watch their weight or something...am not exessively fat....i just love my food a whole lot more than i love shopping...i can't be bothered to go into a ship and try on 20,000 kinds of dresses jsut for the fun of it....nothing ever fits or they always make me seem like what am not...yeah sure every girl like to live a fantasy but gimme a bbq and coke any time and we'll be best friends :D
and why can i not fart within the vicinity of friends...i am human too u know....and why is in inappropriate for me to loosen my belt and sit coz i feel like it...i mean guys roam around half nude all the time...i'm just loosening my belt honestly....
society today has made it so difficult for girls to survive normally...u gotta be thin (although i knw for a fact guys hate that) to be called sexy....how is that so when most of the guys always say they want something to grab onto and not something that pokes them...i mean rrreeeaaaaallllyyyyy nowwwwww...
why do we let society create our norms??? why can a girl not do half the things she wants to do??? just coz she got tits and ass??? pplz....we didnt used to wear clothes before...its called evolution....coz eve apparently gave adam the apple or something of that sort...which makes me wonder-is that why guys have that adam's apple thingi around their neck??? coz the apple got stuck half way????
oh weelllll...i'm gonna try and fart in public and see what the response is....i already loosen my belt when i eat too much :D :D
bills, liars and phone calls ;)
am sure all of us have that one friend who just doesn't wanna pay up for anything...i mean really not pay up....he wants to hang out and do everything but in the end he says "sory guys am broke"....dude u inititated the plan in the first place....
we got this one friend in our group...he's a totally awesome guy but gosh he want to do everything and not pay for anything....oh yeah and he creates loadsa fights between ppl toooo....
so this is about him,...
we go for bowling...he doesn't take out cash, we go for a movie-its 600bob for a ticket he takes out 50bob...and then on top of that he hasta have like a gazillion hot dogs, coke and popcorn....hmmmmmm...
or we'd all go out to dinner....and he'll eat the most expensive meal and when the bill comes we can't find him any where coz well he's apparently on the phone with the gf....dude really...every time the bill is about to come u disappear on your fone..i think we're onto your game now....
so am not in town and he goes out with the gang....they actually waited an hour for him to come back and when he didn't-they went to go get him...hahahahahahaha....it's like he hides behind the plants or something to see when the bill is paid coz i swear that's when his fone call ends ALL THE TIME....
and then he makes up stories about each other and tells us to make us fight and stop talking to each other....it's kinda sad coz after we realised that...errrrmmmmm yeeeeaaaaahhhhh..
oh and not to forget that when u need him the most-HE'S NEVER THERE.....he apparently forgot that he was supposed to pick me up on new years and then goes on to tell the rest of the ppls that i was sick...WTTTFFFFFFFFF????? and another time, he refused to pick up a call at 2am when a pal really needed him to.....i mean really now.....just coz the boy got a gf doesn't mean u leave him stranded in the middle of the road.....i think he feels negelcted coz well every one in the group kinda got hitched but then so did he...only its a long distance...u should hear how he tries to incite ppl against each other....wooooowwww....it's actually entertaining...kinda like a very very very hormonal woman....
kinda makes us feel like a booty call....and he only calls when we got money...rest of the month God only knows where he is....
well the trick with these kinda ppl....don't take them any where and if they initiate the plan-tell them you're broke and see how fast they disappear...apparently now he got a new set of friends.....good luck to them-u gonna need it more than u know :)
we got this one friend in our group...he's a totally awesome guy but gosh he want to do everything and not pay for anything....oh yeah and he creates loadsa fights between ppl toooo....
so this is about him,...
we go for bowling...he doesn't take out cash, we go for a movie-its 600bob for a ticket he takes out 50bob...and then on top of that he hasta have like a gazillion hot dogs, coke and popcorn....hmmmmmm...
or we'd all go out to dinner....and he'll eat the most expensive meal and when the bill comes we can't find him any where coz well he's apparently on the phone with the gf....dude really...every time the bill is about to come u disappear on your fone..i think we're onto your game now....
so am not in town and he goes out with the gang....they actually waited an hour for him to come back and when he didn't-they went to go get him...hahahahahahaha....it's like he hides behind the plants or something to see when the bill is paid coz i swear that's when his fone call ends ALL THE TIME....
and then he makes up stories about each other and tells us to make us fight and stop talking to each other....it's kinda sad coz after we realised that...errrrmmmmm yeeeeaaaaahhhhh..
oh and not to forget that when u need him the most-HE'S NEVER THERE.....he apparently forgot that he was supposed to pick me up on new years and then goes on to tell the rest of the ppls that i was sick...WTTTFFFFFFFFF????? and another time, he refused to pick up a call at 2am when a pal really needed him to.....i mean really now.....just coz the boy got a gf doesn't mean u leave him stranded in the middle of the road.....i think he feels negelcted coz well every one in the group kinda got hitched but then so did he...only its a long distance...u should hear how he tries to incite ppl against each other....wooooowwww....it's actually entertaining...kinda like a very very very hormonal woman....
kinda makes us feel like a booty call....and he only calls when we got money...rest of the month God only knows where he is....
well the trick with these kinda ppl....don't take them any where and if they initiate the plan-tell them you're broke and see how fast they disappear...apparently now he got a new set of friends.....good luck to them-u gonna need it more than u know :)
the facebooks, blackberry and twitters :p
soooooooo we all surely have one of the above....i know I for one am addicted to facebook...and now probably blogging as much as i wanna keep it to one a day....loool...
I think the facebooks, blackberrys and twitters have changed our lives dramatically-literally...the amount of drama that people have coz of them is unbelievable...
relationships break, friendships break...for God's sake even families break...all coz you're caught talking to the person you weren't supposed to be talking to...
Don't get me wrong...i met some awesomely wornderful ppl online....but i met some really nasty one's too..
I joined fb out of courtesy for a friend....sona...she made me coz she wanted to be able to keep in touch with me and now i'm hooked....
as cliche as this may sound.....I keep wanting to deactivate my FB account but I just can't bring myself to so it...coz how am i gonna know what's going on then??? i mean even without a tv i get soccer scores, cricket scores, views on wars around the world, obama stories, holiday updates and lets not forget what every one is thinking.....hahahaha..yup the drama....you can see what every one is feeling, who is fighting with who, who is dating the other and who is cheating on the other...i'm a sucker for the drama....teehee heeeee....don't get me wrong....i do't thrive on it..i just like to keep myself entertained....
I have one friend-nyambura....her updates keep me totally happy coz she's one of the best ppl i know...i've known her since i was like 12 and as much as she doesn't know it she taught me alot at that age...she taught me howta be comfortable with myself and who i was as a person and stand with my hand held high...we lost touch and through fb we reconnected...
the other one is kimberley...my friend from high school...i searched for her for almost 4 years before i found her again and when i did it was like we never parted...she's now a mommy to a beautiful son and totally happy and i just sit back in amazement coz she was the biggest tom boy ever...i mean she taught me howta fight huge ass gals who would bully me....hahahahahaha...good old days....
then there was the horrible vicky...a facebook add..holy all he wanted was booty...claims of wanting a relationship...the usual dude story....i was soooo mad that if i see him again i'd wanna smash his face in with a brick and reconstruct his face for him for free...but then i got some interesting inside info that made me laugh...he's 30 and is a momma's boy and does absolutely nothing for himself...who would wana be with a guy like that init???? i mean reeeaaaaaallllyyyyyyy.....i dont wanna be with a guy who drinks himself silly and passes out in the loooooo.....eeeewwwwwwww.....totally not on my list any more...looool
Zunz...a totally awesome add...we became friends through fb..never met but we totally click...i dont havta talk to him every day but we get on so well that it's unbelievable....and he's actually good looking...hehehehehehe....he got a gf now and totally happy as well
Sam....wooooowwww...this dude was a gift from heaven above...i think i was going through my roughest patch when we became friends on fb....i dunno if its possible but he held my hand(virtually) and made me think outta the box and taught me howta use a spade when i was getting it rather than using a fork.....i still follow lots of what he told me in my life today...i havent met him either-he reckons it'll spoil the moments we've had/....guess it's hard coz he's in another country as well....tee hee hee..
Shaz...he totally makes me smile....random add on fb....became friends then best friends then boy friend....it was and is totally off the hook...my angel's smiled down n me and have never stopped since :)
so these were the few that i decided to write about....it's kinda like u get a family from the people on your friend's list without even realising....as strange as it may sound....
but it's not always that way is it???? i mean...what if ur bf caught u talking to another guy through your inbox or on blackberry chat??? does that warrant a break up??? or does it warrant you to defend yourself??? as much as technology has changed our way of life does it really mean that we base our relationships on whats happening in the virtual world??? If i'm married why would i want to start an illegitimate virtual relationship which i may probably get caught??? or why should i be insecure coz my gf is talking to another guy on fb/blackberry or wherever she has an account....it doesnt mean she's gonna cheat on u...dufus...she's allowed to have a life tooo you know....
so as much we are socialising online...lets keep our pants zipped, our thoughts in our heads and learn to trust man kind once again coz not every one is evil.....there are genuine ppl who just wanna be friends :) ooorrrrr...we could all just stop being technology freaks and start to socialize in real time rather than virtually :p :p
I think the facebooks, blackberrys and twitters have changed our lives dramatically-literally...the amount of drama that people have coz of them is unbelievable...
relationships break, friendships break...for God's sake even families break...all coz you're caught talking to the person you weren't supposed to be talking to...
Don't get me wrong...i met some awesomely wornderful ppl online....but i met some really nasty one's too..
I joined fb out of courtesy for a friend....sona...she made me coz she wanted to be able to keep in touch with me and now i'm hooked....
as cliche as this may sound.....I keep wanting to deactivate my FB account but I just can't bring myself to so it...coz how am i gonna know what's going on then??? i mean even without a tv i get soccer scores, cricket scores, views on wars around the world, obama stories, holiday updates and lets not forget what every one is thinking.....hahahaha..yup the drama....you can see what every one is feeling, who is fighting with who, who is dating the other and who is cheating on the other...i'm a sucker for the drama....teehee heeeee....don't get me wrong....i do't thrive on it..i just like to keep myself entertained....
I have one friend-nyambura....her updates keep me totally happy coz she's one of the best ppl i know...i've known her since i was like 12 and as much as she doesn't know it she taught me alot at that age...she taught me howta be comfortable with myself and who i was as a person and stand with my hand held high...we lost touch and through fb we reconnected...
the other one is kimberley...my friend from high school...i searched for her for almost 4 years before i found her again and when i did it was like we never parted...she's now a mommy to a beautiful son and totally happy and i just sit back in amazement coz she was the biggest tom boy ever...i mean she taught me howta fight huge ass gals who would bully me....hahahahahaha...good old days....
then there was the horrible vicky...a facebook add..holy all he wanted was booty...claims of wanting a relationship...the usual dude story....i was soooo mad that if i see him again i'd wanna smash his face in with a brick and reconstruct his face for him for free...but then i got some interesting inside info that made me laugh...he's 30 and is a momma's boy and does absolutely nothing for himself...who would wana be with a guy like that init???? i mean reeeaaaaaallllyyyyyyy.....i dont wanna be with a guy who drinks himself silly and passes out in the loooooo.....eeeewwwwwwww.....totally not on my list any more...looool
Zunz...a totally awesome add...we became friends through fb..never met but we totally click...i dont havta talk to him every day but we get on so well that it's unbelievable....and he's actually good looking...hehehehehehe....he got a gf now and totally happy as well
Sam....wooooowwww...this dude was a gift from heaven above...i think i was going through my roughest patch when we became friends on fb....i dunno if its possible but he held my hand(virtually) and made me think outta the box and taught me howta use a spade when i was getting it rather than using a fork.....i still follow lots of what he told me in my life today...i havent met him either-he reckons it'll spoil the moments we've had/....guess it's hard coz he's in another country as well....tee hee hee..
Shaz...he totally makes me smile....random add on fb....became friends then best friends then boy friend....it was and is totally off the hook...my angel's smiled down n me and have never stopped since :)
so these were the few that i decided to write about....it's kinda like u get a family from the people on your friend's list without even realising....as strange as it may sound....
but it's not always that way is it???? i mean...what if ur bf caught u talking to another guy through your inbox or on blackberry chat??? does that warrant a break up??? or does it warrant you to defend yourself??? as much as technology has changed our way of life does it really mean that we base our relationships on whats happening in the virtual world??? If i'm married why would i want to start an illegitimate virtual relationship which i may probably get caught??? or why should i be insecure coz my gf is talking to another guy on fb/blackberry or wherever she has an account....it doesnt mean she's gonna cheat on u...dufus...she's allowed to have a life tooo you know....
so as much we are socialising online...lets keep our pants zipped, our thoughts in our heads and learn to trust man kind once again coz not every one is evil.....there are genuine ppl who just wanna be friends :) ooorrrrr...we could all just stop being technology freaks and start to socialize in real time rather than virtually :p :p
Saturday, 2 April 2011
rock my boat and throw you off it ;)
sooooo here goes...i've never really done this and i thought i'd give it a shot..i've always thought i'd be an interesting writer...
i got a girl friend who totally rocks my boat-sometimes even throws me off coz she major issues with herself i decided to write a little bit...
she totally does things that she doesn't wanna coz it'll make every one around her happy...have u ever et a person wo is sooooo innocent that you can't believe they're for real??? plus she can't do anything on her own....
why is it so hard to go watch a movie by yourself or go to the park alone...or decide today is the day i'm making me time and just sit under the stars by myself with whatever i is that i wanna do under the stars be it just stare or run or sleep or drink wine...
why are people always aiming to please another and in the process making themselves unhappy coz that ain't who they are??
go for the cooking class u wanted to-you'll meet new people :) get the manicure done-it works when the indicators don't ;) buy that little dress-how else will they know you got such awesome legs???
dont be scared to talk-u might just have the cure for cancer...
so i ask my friend....what is it that u want...she is 30 years after all ....her answer was.......i just want him back....this is a dude who make you feel ontop of the world and down in the dumps all at one time just coz he can't deal with the fact that you are an independant beautiful woman whom he made dependant on him and now that u getting your groove back on (excuse the pun) he decides you cheating on him.....maaaannn i curse the day of mobile phones and black berry's....ever noticed how high the rate of break ups are these days????
so i tell her...okay you want him backkk...then don't smother him....and what does she do....she actually goes to call him to say...I'M NOT GONNA TALK TO YOU ANY MORE.....what sorta woman does that??? knowing that he's kinda abit sensitive to that kinda stuff....he broke up with her.....ehhhhmmmm....i'm in for loadsa fone calls 2nyt and they definitely won't be from my bf.... *sigh*
I know this ain't right(talking about my friend and all)...but i figured alot of us girls actually do that...it's always gotta be me and my man...what happened to me and my gals??? you totally forget that he fell in love with you coz of who you were and not what he wants you to be...if u were the crazy table dancer-yeah sure tone it down abit coz ur hooked up but still be the crazy one...and if you were the book worm then talk abit more but still have the love for books...
the dude needs his space...he doesn't need to know everytime u pee, poo, fart, sneeze or walk to the shop..he wants to know the interesting things that make you who u are :)
if he's the type that doesn't want to have the life that you used to have or it becomes all about him that's when you gotta say HONEY YOU ROCK MY BOAT AND I'M GONNA THROW YOU OFF IT :D
i got a girl friend who totally rocks my boat-sometimes even throws me off coz she major issues with herself i decided to write a little bit...
she totally does things that she doesn't wanna coz it'll make every one around her happy...have u ever et a person wo is sooooo innocent that you can't believe they're for real??? plus she can't do anything on her own....
why is it so hard to go watch a movie by yourself or go to the park alone...or decide today is the day i'm making me time and just sit under the stars by myself with whatever i is that i wanna do under the stars be it just stare or run or sleep or drink wine...
why are people always aiming to please another and in the process making themselves unhappy coz that ain't who they are??
go for the cooking class u wanted to-you'll meet new people :) get the manicure done-it works when the indicators don't ;) buy that little dress-how else will they know you got such awesome legs???
dont be scared to talk-u might just have the cure for cancer...
so i ask my friend....what is it that u want...she is 30 years after all ....her answer was.......i just want him back....this is a dude who make you feel ontop of the world and down in the dumps all at one time just coz he can't deal with the fact that you are an independant beautiful woman whom he made dependant on him and now that u getting your groove back on (excuse the pun) he decides you cheating on him.....maaaannn i curse the day of mobile phones and black berry's....ever noticed how high the rate of break ups are these days????
so i tell her...okay you want him backkk...then don't smother him....and what does she do....she actually goes to call him to say...I'M NOT GONNA TALK TO YOU ANY MORE.....what sorta woman does that??? knowing that he's kinda abit sensitive to that kinda stuff....he broke up with her.....ehhhhmmmm....i'm in for loadsa fone calls 2nyt and they definitely won't be from my bf.... *sigh*
I know this ain't right(talking about my friend and all)...but i figured alot of us girls actually do that...it's always gotta be me and my man...what happened to me and my gals??? you totally forget that he fell in love with you coz of who you were and not what he wants you to be...if u were the crazy table dancer-yeah sure tone it down abit coz ur hooked up but still be the crazy one...and if you were the book worm then talk abit more but still have the love for books...
the dude needs his space...he doesn't need to know everytime u pee, poo, fart, sneeze or walk to the shop..he wants to know the interesting things that make you who u are :)
if he's the type that doesn't want to have the life that you used to have or it becomes all about him that's when you gotta say HONEY YOU ROCK MY BOAT AND I'M GONNA THROW YOU OFF IT :D
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