distance, relationships and why they don't work but should....

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i've had loadsa distance relationships...infact i'm in one right now....ok so we not that far away but we still apart and don't see each other as much as we would like to but it's working (for once) and i think my bf has the key concept of distance relationships....it's called less communication....loooool

his theory is the more you talk to each other, the more u miss each other and the more u start looking for that affection....and ur partner ain't around so wellllll u get it else where init???

i mean sure u miss each other and stuff but hey if u constantly remind yourself about it then whaddya expect????

don't get me wrong...we talk.....i share all my bad things and good things and exciting things with him but as i have learned over the past couple months-there's a time and place and opportunity for everything....and my bf and i-TOTAL OPPOSITES...i love to talk and dance and jump like an excited monkey and he just loves to chill out, be quiet and calm and relaxed....atleast i can talk as much as i want without beiing interrupted...u know how annoying that can be with all the chatter and jabber i got in my head?? tee hee hee

back to his theory....at first i thought he's just being crazy and stuff...i mean really now....and then i realised that guys just can't give a girl the kinda attention that he usually does coz well then they become all soft in the head....i have come to realise that when it comes to relationships MEN ARE NINNYS...and they dont want the others to know about it so they become all macho and gangster...they feel more for you then u can ever imagine but are just scared of showing it coz then we know we got them and treat them like shit...and yeah u know that's the truth..WHEN A GIRL KNOWS SHE GOT A GUY NINNY SHE ABUSES THAT RIGHT AND TRAMPLES ALL OVER HIS HEART...

so when ur apart abd he doesn't call or text you...it's not that he doesn't miss u-COZ HONEY YOU KNOW HE DOES-it's that he doesn't wanna over miss you coz then it becomes unbearable for him and he ends up over eating and as much as we love teddies you'll dump his ass so fast coz he grew fat :p :p

so stop being a drama queen and just understand HE'A A MAN..they're apparently supposed to be MACHO.....

and that's the reason long distance doesn't work.....