rock my boat and throw you off it ;)

sooooo here goes...i've never really done this and i thought i'd give it a shot..i've always thought i'd be an interesting writer...

i got a girl friend who totally rocks my boat-sometimes even throws me off coz she major issues with herself i decided to write a little bit...

she totally does things that she doesn't wanna coz it'll make every one around her happy...have u ever et a person wo is sooooo innocent that you can't believe they're for real??? plus she can't do anything on her own....

why is it so hard to go watch a movie by yourself or go to the park alone...or decide today is the day i'm making me time and just sit under the stars by myself with whatever i is that i wanna do under the stars be it just stare or run or sleep or drink wine...

why are people always aiming to please another and in the process making themselves unhappy  coz that ain't who they are??

go for the cooking class u wanted to-you'll meet new people :) get the manicure done-it works when the indicators don't ;) buy that little dress-how else will they know you got such awesome legs???
dont be scared to talk-u might just have the cure for cancer...

so i ask my friend....what is it that u want...she is 30 years after all ....her answer was.......i just want him back....this is a dude who make you feel ontop of the world and down in the dumps all at one time just coz he can't deal with the fact that you are an independant beautiful woman whom he made dependant on him and now that u getting your groove back on (excuse the pun) he decides you cheating on him.....maaaannn i curse the day of mobile phones and black berry's....ever noticed how high the rate of break ups are these days????

so i tell her...okay you want him backkk...then don't smother him....and what does she do....she actually goes to call him to say...I'M NOT GONNA TALK TO YOU ANY MORE.....what sorta woman does that??? knowing that he's kinda abit sensitive to that kinda stuff....he broke up with her.....ehhhhmmmm....i'm in for loadsa fone calls 2nyt and they definitely won't be from my bf.... *sigh*

I know this ain't right(talking about my friend and all)...but i figured alot of us girls actually do that...it's always gotta be me and my man...what happened to me and my gals??? you totally forget that he fell in love with you coz of who you were and not what he wants you to be...if u were the crazy table dancer-yeah sure tone it down abit coz ur hooked up but still be the crazy one...and if you were the book worm then talk abit more but still have the love for books...

the dude needs his space...he doesn't need to know everytime u pee, poo, fart, sneeze or walk to the shop..he wants to know the interesting things that make you who u are :)

if he's the type that doesn't want to have the life that you used to have or it becomes all about him  that's when you gotta say HONEY YOU ROCK MY BOAT AND I'M GONNA THROW YOU OFF IT :D