the facebooks, blackberry and twitters :p

soooooooo we all surely have one of the above....i know I for one am addicted to facebook...and now probably blogging as much as i wanna keep it to one a day....loool...

I think the facebooks, blackberrys and twitters have changed our lives dramatically-literally...the amount of drama that people have coz of them is unbelievable...

relationships break, friendships break...for God's sake even families break...all coz you're caught talking to the person you weren't supposed to be talking to...

Don't get me wrong...i met some awesomely wornderful ppl online....but i met some really nasty one's too..

I joined fb out of courtesy for a friend....sona...she made me coz she wanted to be able to keep in touch with me and now i'm hooked....

as cliche as this may sound.....I keep wanting to deactivate my FB account but I just can't bring myself to so it...coz how am i gonna know what's going on then??? i mean even without a tv i get soccer scores, cricket scores, views on wars around the world, obama stories, holiday updates and lets not forget what every one is thinking.....hahahaha..yup the drama....you can see what every one is feeling, who is fighting with who, who is dating the other and who is cheating on the other...i'm a sucker for the drama....teehee heeeee....don't get me wrong....i do't thrive on it..i just like to keep myself entertained....

I have one friend-nyambura....her updates keep me totally happy coz she's one of the best ppl i know...i've known her since i was like 12 and as much as she doesn't know it she taught me alot at that age...she taught me howta be comfortable with myself and who i was as a person and stand with my hand held high...we lost touch and through fb we reconnected...

the other one is kimberley...my friend from high school...i searched for her for almost 4 years before i found her again and when i did it was like we never parted...she's now a mommy to a beautiful son and totally happy and i just sit back in amazement coz she was the biggest tom boy ever...i mean she taught me howta fight huge ass gals who would bully me....hahahahahaha...good old days....

then there was the horrible vicky...a facebook add..holy all he wanted was booty...claims of wanting a relationship...the usual dude story....i was soooo mad that if i see him again i'd wanna smash his face in with a brick and reconstruct his face for him for free...but then i got some interesting inside info that made me laugh...he's 30 and is a momma's boy and does absolutely nothing for himself...who would wana be with a guy like that init???? i mean reeeaaaaaallllyyyyyyy.....i dont wanna be with a guy who drinks himself silly and passes out in the loooooo.....eeeewwwwwwww.....totally not on my list any more...looool

Zunz...a totally awesome add...we became friends through fb..never met but we totally click...i dont havta talk to him every day but we get on so well that it's unbelievable....and he's actually good looking...hehehehehehe....he got a gf now and totally happy as well

Sam....wooooowwww...this dude was a gift from heaven above...i think i was going through my roughest patch when we became friends on fb....i dunno if its possible but he held my hand(virtually) and made me think outta the box and taught me howta use a spade when i was getting it rather than using a fork.....i still follow lots of what he told me in my life today...i havent met him either-he reckons it'll spoil the moments we've had/....guess it's hard coz he's in another country as well....tee hee hee..

Shaz...he totally makes me smile....random add on fb....became friends then best friends then boy friend....it was and is totally off the hook...my angel's smiled down n me and have never stopped since :)

so these were the few that i decided to write about....it's kinda like u get a family from the people on your friend's list without even realising....as strange as it may sound....

but it's not always that way is it???? i mean...what if ur bf caught u talking to another guy through your inbox or on blackberry chat??? does that warrant a break up??? or does it warrant you to defend yourself??? as much as technology has changed our way of life does it really mean that we base our relationships on whats happening in the virtual world??? If i'm married why would i want to start an illegitimate virtual relationship which i may probably get caught??? or why should i be insecure coz my gf is talking to another guy on fb/blackberry or wherever she has an account....it doesnt mean she's gonna cheat on u...dufus...she's allowed to have a life tooo you know....

so as much we are socialising online...lets keep our pants zipped, our thoughts in our heads and learn to trust man kind once again coz not every one is evil.....there are genuine ppl who just wanna be friends :) ooorrrrr...we could all just stop being technology freaks and start to socialize in real time rather than virtually :p :p