Monday, 18 April 2011

emotions....emotions and more emotions.....pffffffffff (for the guys from the girls)

ok so me being a woman i go through these hormonal changes and they cause loadsa emotional changes and these usually happen around the same time...it's kinda weird but well it happens...and well at these times i dont want some one to tell me what i wanna hear i want some one to tell me the truth....and most times PEOPLE DON'T TELL YOU THE TRUTH...

yeah i get really insecure....duh the reason i'm getting insecure is you're a really hot and awesome guy and i'm lucky to have u so uhmmm any girl would wanna have u...i just wanna hear u say that ur mine mine and only mine...that can't be so hard to keep saying can it???

i wanna hear how beautiful i am and how u never look at other women....and if u do...tell me and then say something like YOU KNOW YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE FOR ME...i'll feel so much better...

tell me how u miss me and can't live without me...these are things i need to hear mid relationship and not in the beginning of the relationship...clearly the relationship is still new-obviously u cant live without me...i excite your life....but i need to  know that when things are tough and boring on our relationship u still gonna be able to say u can't live without me...

don't say i love u all the time but say it when u feel that i need to hear it....I go through emotions ALL THE TIME incase u haven't noticed....and i need to hear it alot of the times coz it makees me all giddy and happy inside...but dont over do it....

when i feel frumpy...dont lie and say i dont look bad....accentuate my good sides...say positive things about me...it'll help...

when i'm venting...i'm just simply venting...i don't need for you to think of a solution....i mean think about how many of us hate each other but when u see us we're the best of friends???? it's called FEMALE...the need to bond with the other of my species is necessary for some reason coz they're more emotionally charged and you, the man, is logically charged....sometimes i just want emotion...

when am venting...DON'T GIVE ME YOUR OPINION...i just wanna be heard out...say hmmm, huh, are u ok? , do u feel better, how can i help?...things like that are nice...show that u care...don't say....I THINK YOU SHOULD, WHY DONT U JUST DO THIS etc etc....

when i talk...am not directing my anger at you....i'm just venting coz i dunno how am feeling and i usually let things out by talking....so please don't take it to heart....it's not your fault or your problem...i just wanna talk and i trust u the most so i feel that i can just talk without u taking it personally...

so men....learn what to say, when to say and how to say things....i wish there was some man out there who could tell me how to do them things with their fellow species....

1 comment:

  1. i think i need to start something for the boys out there... lol

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